Monday, June 25, 2018

Swimming lessons take over your life

I took a picture of the keychain that Emilia made for Steve last week and forgot to put it in last week's post. So here you are. It's Star Wars themed and perfect for Steve.


We had swimming lessons this week. Every day at 9:30 am. When I signed the girls up, I thought 9:30 would be a good time to allow everyone to sleep in, but be early enough to not impinge on the rest of the day. I miscalculated. Apparently when Cecily swims for a half an hour every day, she needs to sleep later than 8:45 am. Because by Friday, she was completely unmanageable. A description of the highlights of our day (from Facebook):

--Cecily was throwing a tantrum on the way to swimming lessons, screaming that she would NOT eat the dry cereal she had begged me to bring with for her breakfast and that instead she would only eat cookies. I ugly screamed back, "I'd rather you starve than give you cookies!"
--Then after I dropped her sisters off for the lessons she was supposed to be at, but which I wasn't letting her go to because she'd been so horrible all morning (it was 9:30 am), she jumps out of the car at the parking lot stop sign and books it the other direction. I have to hop out of the car and chase after her while construction workers stare at my wonderful parenting.
--We had to drive home because I'd forgotten towels (because someone had been screaming at me for ten minutes before we left) so I planned to hurry and get them and let Cecily go to the end of her lesson if she calmed down and listened. She just kept arguing with me though, so finally, I brilliantly told her, "You are not going to win! I am bigger than you and heavier than you and stronger than you and more stubborn. So I'm going to win! Stop fighting me!" Her response? "Not until you turn this car around!"
--Later, we went to get Sno Cones because I'd promised them the day before that we could get them. But...I hadn't had time to shower yet, so I gave them money to buy the shaved ice and then we were going to drive home and eat them. Mira asked why we couldn't just eat them there and I told her it was because I was dirty and smelly. Cecily pipes up, "Mom, you always smell bad. Even right after you take a shower. 😖
--As soon as Mira steps in the car with her cone, she drops tiger's blood shaved ice on Emilia's seat. I yell, "Hurry! Brush it off before it stains something!" And Emilia proceeds to brush it further into the car. 🤪😵

I love Mira's sense of style. So I documented it.



We worked more on our custom ponies this week. We actually were able to cut the hair off and pull it out without locking ourselves out of the house even once. We also started the painting. We need to paint the eyes and the eye masks and the spots on Ladybug.








One night, my mom asked us to run to Joanne's to take advantage of a great sale. She is still mostly out of commission recovering from her surgery, so me and Mira and Emilia picked out a bunch of fabric for my mom to use in skirts.



Mira, also stole my phone to take selfies, apparently.













I got some gladiolas out of my front flower beds this week, too. They're such a unique flower. So pretty.


Steve and I went on a date Saturday night to the local used book store. It's the first time we've been since they moved to a new location. It's a really fun store with tons of well-organized books. The only reason I remember this is because I took a picture of one of the books I found. I have so many friends with anxiety, I wanted to show this to them.


I didn't take any more pictures this week. And I don't have anything else on my calendar. I know Steve had a game night. And I got to write one night. And I had my weekly writer's group and helped Julia. And we celebrated Father's Day on Monday night when Steve got home by getting take out and eating at a park. I probably went shopping a couple times. But since there are no pictures I'm having a hard time remembering. I'll have to try harder this next week. :)

Sunday, June 17, 2018

Summer (not) lazy days

I don't know why I always think summer is going to be a lot of laying around and finding ways to fill up our days. Because it NEVER is. This week was madness.

Megan and her family were still here on Monday, so we went over to my parents' house and did a couple of art projects and put together another puzzle and played some games. That morning, after we'd eaten breakfast, the kids wanted to start working on the custom My Little Pony's we'd planned to do this summer. Making a custom MLP involves getting a MLP you don't mind destroying, pulling their head off and cutting all their hair off, then pulling it out by the roots. Then you paint it with either fingernail polish or regular paint that you spray over with a clear coat. Then you buy this special tool that allows you to re-hair the pony with the hair you buy online. We already bought the hair and the tool and the ponies from DI, so the kids wanted to start with the pulling off their heads part. I thought we should do a few before and after photos, so I took the two ponies outside to take the picture because the cement wall over the cement patio makes for a nice non-distracting background. But all the kids were so excited, they followed me out and shut the door. And we were locked out. In our pajamas. Steve was already at work 30-40 minutes away and he is the only other person with a key. I used to have a key hidden outside for just this sort of circumstance, but of course it was lost months ago and I haven't gotten around to getting a new one made. As I sat fuming on the back steps, Emilia and Mira decided they needed to make sure the front door wasn't somehow magically not locked. I knew I had locked it the night before and no one had gone outside that morning yet, so I knew it would be locked. But by some miracle, the door opened when they tried it. (Sometimes, since our door handles still turn on the inside, even when they're locked, it's hard to tell whether they've latched all the way, or sometimes, the lock only engages after the outside handle is turned to a certain point.) So the girls come running back yelling, "We're saved! We're saved! The door opened!" And I was so relieved that I wouldn't have to make Steve drive all the way home to let us into the house. But the little geniuses were so excited that the door opened, that they shut it again before coming to tell me it opened. That was enough to latch it or to engage the lock, and once again, we were locked out. *palm to face* I ended up calling Steve to come let us in. He was in a meeting and wouldn't be out for a while. So then I called Megan and made her come pick us up so we could at least sit around inside a house while still in our pajamas. Thank goodness my parents only live 10 minutes away now instead of an hour away.


Tuesday, I had a week's worth of housework to catch up on. We needed to go help Julia, do laundry, clean the house, do dishes, etc. I also joined a new writing group and we discussed our submissions via Voxer throughout the day. It took up way more mental energy than I thought it would and made my day feel like it was smashed full of things to do, even though it was really the equivalent of talking on the phone all day. That night, I met up with my friend Gina for dinner and a movie. We saw Ocean's 8 and I was as underwhelmed as I expected to be. Dinner was a tasty GF pizza at Village Baker. Mmmm.


Wednesday we did a TON of running around. I had to get my fingerprinting/background check done for renewing my teaching license. I went to Costco and Macey's (and then Reams later because I forgot two things that I needed for dinner). Then after an early dinner, we went to the library and then to DI where I found a bunch of cute clothes that I needed for summer. My mom also had hip replacement surgery that day and everything went smoothly.

Of course, we had to visit her the next day. But first, I hosted the Activity Days girls. It's my new calling at church. Activity Days are activities for girls aged 8-11 to help them complete the requirements for an award they can receive before they start the youth program (it's a little like cub scouts, but more focused on faith-based activities than all-around life skills). I am only the leader over 10 and 11 year-old girls and there are only 4 of them right now. We made gifts for their fathers (shrinky dink keychains decorated by each girl), and they each wrote a letter telling their fathers what they respect and admire about them (that fulfilled one of the requirements for the award). Then after lunch, I had a dentist appointment. No cavities. Hooray! Then we finally drove down to visit my mom. She was doing well, in very little pain and getting over the itching from the spinal tap. The nurse was nice enough to give the kids double popsicles which kept them entertained for long enough to have a nice chat with my mom. Then as we were leaving, another nurse wheeled a cart by covered in patriotic Flag Day cupcakes and asked if we wanted one. Each of the kids happily accepted, but I made them take them outside so they wouldn't get crumbs all over the clean hospital floors. It was 95 degrees outside, so we sat in the shade of a tree as they ate. All of a sudden, Mira screamed. When I looked over, there was a big splotch of black on her arm. A bird had pooped on her! Of course, it had picked my germaphobe. After rushing inside to wash up in a bathroom, we found the culprit and photographed it. I thought this was all quite hilarious, but Mira was quite a bit less amused.


My dad asked us to stop by DI on our way home to see if they had a walker mom could use. They didn't, but I found some more clothes to buy. I might like shopping a bit too much. Then I had to make dinner and I was pooped after that. Steve ended up taking the girls to feed the ducks while I fell asleep on the couch.

Steve had a flight to catch to Denver Friday morning. He's been there all weekend, and the girls are very sad that he's not here for Father's Day. We'll celebrate tomorrow evening. His nephew, Xander, is leaving on a 2-year mission for our church and he went to celebrate and send him off with the rest of his siblings and parents. The girls and I had a pretty lazy day Friday, though the younger two did have gymnastics and we had fast food for dinner.

Yesterday, we ended up having to take Great Grandma Watts to instacare. Since the rest of the family is in Colorado, I was the only one around to do it. She ended up having both shingles and a staff infection from scratching them, so I'm glad I was able to get her a prescription before Nick came home on Monday. After we dropped her off back at the nursing home, the girls and I went to the bean museum. We were there at the right time to attend a live animal show where they taught the kids about the difference between vertebrates and invertebrates. The young lady doing the show let a tarantula climb on her arm (yech!), then showed us a frog from the amazon rainforest. We couldn't touch either of those. At the end, she brought out a lizard that looked like a baby monitor lizard (I can't remember what she said it actually was), which the kids could touch if they wanted to. Cecily decided that she wanted tons of pictures at the museum, like she sees in movies. The second-to-last picture is Emilia posing like the elk behind her. The last one is Cecily trying not to laugh as she takes a picture with an elk's butt. She's so funny. :D After the Bean Museum, we had ice cream at the BYU Creamery. I heated up leftovers for dinner and the kids played while I cleaned up the house. It was good day.












We are all looking forward to seeing Steve tomorrow. Happy Father's Day everyone!


Sunday, June 10, 2018

Adventures with family

Last week we were in St. George with no internet. We'd gone down for a weekend of fun with Ben and his family, but with the HOT weather, Haylee with laryngitis, and some rough nights, we ended up leaving on Sunday instead of Monday like we'd planned. While we were there, we explored Pioneer Park, went to the aquatic center, and visited Joe and Cindy. I was proud of Emilia at the aquatic center. There was a big floating obstacle course in the middle of the lap pool and you had to prove you could swim from one side of the pool to the other in order to be approved to try the obstacle course. She went to do the lap but was too scared to try. So when she came back into the kids side of the pool, I challenged her to try swimming across without touching bottom there. She ended up deciding she could do it on her back, so she went back over and tried again. She did it that time and did the obstacle course with her dad a number of times.

At Pioneer Park, we climbed rock formations, saw tons of lizards, moon flowers, and fun holes to take pictures in. Cecily even spotted a coyote/fox (we couldn't tell which, it was too far away).

There's a lizard in there



Steve bought the game Five Tribes and we got to play with both Ben and then Joe. I won the first game and I think Steve won the second.

Since we were home Monday, we decided to use one of the tickets from our Visit Salt Lake passes and since it was going to be almost 100 degrees in Salt Lake that day, we went up to Snowbird and took the tram to the top of a 11000 foot mountain. Up there it was only 64 degrees. The tram ride was not as fun as I'd hoped. Not because it wasn't what I expected, but I didn't expect it to make me motion sick. They stopped the tram twice on the way up to move mechanics from one tower to another. I am already afraid of heights and then the momentum of the tram made us swing when they stopped. Plus, why did they need mechanics on the towers?? I'm glad we did it, and I'm also glad I didn't pay for it. At the top, there was still snow on the ground. We had a snowball fight and some tears when kids slipped and fell on it. We took some pictures, had a snack, and then went back down. We had tasty pizza for dinner that night and watched The Greatest Showman for the first time. Pizza was definitely my favorite part of the day.







This week, Megan got into town Tuesday night, so we've spent most of our days at my mom's hanging out with them. We've put together puzzles, done art projects, the kids played in the water, played catch, school, polly pockets, pokemon, and more. We also went to the Art City Days Children's Art Festival where all the kids got their faces (or hands) painted and did some fun art projects.



Mira had to have sealant put on her teeth on Wednesday, so everyone went with. Cecily needed to have a picture taken of her riding the horse with a serious face. Of course, so did Mira then.



Thursday, I spent most of the day helping my friend, Debbie, clean her house. She is now headed to live in Florida to help her and her husband's aging parents. There were only 3 of us to clean a 2800 sq ft house, so we worked hard for over 6 hours and I still felt like we left a lot undone. It was good to spend time with Debbie one last time and my shoulders are stronger for the effort for sure. :)


Yesterday the Staley's had a family reunion to go to, so I took the girls to the Art City Days Parade where they collected a ridiculous amount of frooties and salt water taffy and tootsie rolls. They each got at least 1 otter pop as well, and Cecily's turned her tongue blue. Steve, who hates parades got there as the last five floats/trucks were driving by. Since the girls and I wanted to go to the "festival" part of Art City Days, which Steve also hates, he headed off for an oil change and the girls and I got overheated along with losing my debit card. The carnival rides were ridiculously overpriced ($3 to ride the carousel for a minute?). Yet, despite that, I managed to keep it together and enjoy spending time with my kids. I also made belgian waffles with ice cream for dinner, so that makes up for a lot of stuff. :)





Today, we're hosting the family for a barbecue to celebrate June birthdays: my dad, Lincoln, and Vance. I hope y'all have a great week!